Are you saying these two sayings? If so, it's time to stop.
Are you feeling weary?
Is your vulnerability healthy or distorted?
To pretend that we don't have struggles, temptations, or wounds is to deny what Scripture teaches us.
God has uniquely gifted each one of us -- so don't worry if your cartwheels look like leapfrogs.
Be more than a nice family: be loving, devoted, accepting, encouraging, peaceful, prayerful, and forgiving.